We’ve already talked about the power of Imagination with the simple review of some few quotes of Einstein.
If heed is to be taken of how those quotes were presented you will really understand how hazardous and fatal it is to undertake too many worries in your life.
Inferiority, weak mentality, inconsistency, psychological weakness and the unwillingness to take action all embeds on the bosom of worries.
Dale Carnegie makes it clear that…
“if you can’t sleep then get up and do something instead of lying there worrying. It’s the worry that gets you up not the loss of sleep”
Indeed, is the worry that gets you up. What matter has been giving you insomnia every night?
When and for how long have you been thinking about it?
Has that fetched you any solution?
If No! then I will advise you stop doing such harm to your health and build a strong mentality. Just accelerate yourself, keep that small momentum and throw all those trashy thinking away.
In fact, that capacity of nerves you are wasting on unnecessary thinking during dawn and midnight can be reserved to think and solve the problem instead.
Much thinking and worries do nothing good for your problem, it rather brings you headache, insomnia, high blood pressure, loss of blood, heart problem, depression and anxiety.
After coming out from the problem, you will find yourself in the hospital just after few days.
Save yourself from worries, and try to build genuine imagination and strong mentality from now.
“are you bore with life? Then throw yourself into some work you believe in with all your heart, live for it, die for it and you will find happiness that you had thought could never be yours”
Maybe, you have taken much time to think and worry about a whole lot of things, and so you are bored with life.
What work do you believe in with all your heart? Will you live and die for that work? In fact, I will ask the same question as: what work do you have the passion for, what actually do you enjoy doing?
The life as we see is not only about pleasing people in the areas where we have been employed. If you have nothing, at least you have your hobbies.
I can even challenge you to look deep inside yourself to figure out one thing you can do which looks so unique.
The whole idea is, come out with something you enjoy doing. Try and apply small ideas to it, you can live and survive on it.
Don’t worry if you are fired from your work.
Don’t worry if you can’t get money to pay your school fees.
Don’t worry if you have not gotten the chance to continue the school.
Don’t worry if they are not employing you.
Don’t worry if you are not getting any job.
Don’t worry if business is not going well.
Do something, which will always make you happy in life.
He then continues…
“take a chance! All life is a chance. The man who goes the furthest is generally the one who is willing to do and dare”
Try to take more chances even if many of them have been lost. Indeed, all life is a chance.
Don’t be using the past events to be judging the current chances coming in your way and that is the more reason why you should stop worrying.
At a time, opportunities pop once, and when the mind is not prepared to take advantage of it, you will be looking at from worry point of view.
Just take a chance!
“don’t be afraid to give your best to what seemingly are small jobs. Every time you conquer one, it makes you much stronger. If you do the little jobs well, the big ones tend to take care of themselves”
The act of worrying about how to get big jobs isn’t relevant.
If you sell you are a carpenter and you are able to do just one table, just keep on.
If you are a hawker and you are able to sell half of your items, just keep on.
If you are a freelancer and you get a contract in 6 months, just keep on.
If you are a businessman and your items takes a whole month to finish, just keep on.
That is the source of your strength, that is where your success story begins, that is where your journey and that is if you are able to hold on to it, will be your breakthrough.
Dale Carnegie continues to say that…
“it isn’t what you have, who you are or where you are or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about”
You are worrying not because of the absurd circumstances coming in your way, is because of what you are thinking and the way you are thinking about it.
Whatever you are going through is less than what someone is going through.
Where you are, is not the matter, someone is no more.
Who you are is not the matter, a lot of people can’t identify themselves due to certain circumstances.
What you have is not the matter, someone sees nothing in his life.
Your happiness is not about the things you haven’t get is not about the total satisfaction you are seeking.
It’s all about what you are thinking, use your imagination.
“one of the tragic things I know about human nature is that all of us tend to putt off living. We are all dreaming of some magical rose garden over the horizon instead of enjoying the roses blooming outside our windows today”
And this is the reason why most of us tend to worry instead of taking the chances that come our way.
We are dreaming of some magical rose garden over the horizon. A fresh graduate wants a company that will give him car and apartment.
A young entrepreneur wants to have a one-time action of success.
A businessman who hasn’t spent more than 6 months in his business journey wants to have 200 customers and buyers a day.
There are a lot of problems which needs to be solved in our communities and vicinities yet we look for salary jobs day in day out.
I agree perfectly with Dale Carnegie.
He still put it on that…
“most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seem to be no help”
If there is no one to help, don’t worry, just do it yourself.
“those convinced against their will are of the same opinion still”
“your purpose is to make your audience see what you saw, hear what you heard, feel what you felt. Relevant detail, couched in concrete, colorful language, is the best way to create the incident as it happened as you picture it for the audience”
Because at the end…
“the successful man will profit from his mistakes and try again in a different way”
So why the worry…?